Why so many questions??

Why so many questions??

Why so many questions during the first session?

Well, as you may know the first session with me can last up to 2 hours, the reason for this is so I can get a big picture of where you are, what your past has been like and where you want to be. All of this is so very important no mater what you have come to see me for, whether its smoking cessation, weight management, anxiety, fears or phobias, the list goes on. What has happened in our past creates the person we are, our experiences good and bad, shape us and the way we behave.

So even if what you feel is a more simple problem it can often be a symptom of something and that something maybe from your past. The subconscious brain or old brain (sometimes called the reptilian brain) is a very simple learning system and is constantly taking in information and putting it into files (for want of a better way to look at it). Those files are good or bad, right or wrong, alive or dead. This can sound extreme and very simple, but this part of our brain is that way. It is referred to as the old or reptilian brain because it is the part of the brain that developed first if we look through the history of man. If we go way back to more cave men times, we were only interested in 2 things, survival and procreation. This part of the brain is still their inside of us doing its bit to keep us alive.

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So this old brain learns how to do things and over the years they become the way we do things. So if we learn as a child that food is a reward for doing something good or making you feel better when hurt, the old brain learns this and this is part of how we therefore are in the here and now. For example: young person at Uni gets dumped, they go for the ice cream tub or the chocolate draw or the crisp cupboard, the old brain is saying ‘eat food it makes you feel better’ and that food is treat/sweet/salty foods because that was the treat in younger years (sweet for doing well at school, a biscuit when you fell over and hurt yourself).

 

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This old part of the brain has no logic, not like the more conscious or new brain, it also doesn’t have a sense of time like our new or more conscious brain. It has stored the information that if you get hurt, food helps you feel better, simple as that for the old brain. Your new brain may well be saying ‘this isn’t good for you’ or ‘you should be able to cope with this without a sweet treat’ but the old brain is stronger. The old brain looks for a pattern of what it has done in the past that worked and does it again, it goes ‘food helps’ so off to the sweet draw or chocolate tin, etc. The no awareness of time also hinders things for us, the old brain knows something has happened and was successful, you are alive and it doesn’t mater that you where 5 years old and you fell over playing out and mum or dad gave you a biscuit to stop you crying, it just goes that worked before when I was hurt or felt hurt and does it again and again and again.

So there can often be a battle that goes on inside of you, “eat the sweet stuff , you know it makes you feel better” (even if is short lived), “no don’t eat it, it will make you fat” or a “spider, RUN” where the other part of your brain is going “its tiny for goodness sake”. I often here “its like their is a battle going on inside of me….” your old brain is so much stronger than your new brain, your old brain is all about survival and this is a far greater need over everything. The panic of seeing a spider far out ways the part of you that is going “its tiny”.

So coming back to the question, “Why so many questions?” because there may well be something from your past that is sabotaging how you feel and want to be in the here and now. If this isn’t looked into then your symptom, the reason you have come to visit me, may well reappear in the future, some ‘tweaking and adjusting’ to alter the path the brain has always gone down and create a new path may where needed.

I just want to add that the old brain is working about half a second earlier than we a consciously aware of, so that message to “eat sweet food” or “run away from the spider” occurs earlier than we are aware of. So the old brain is heading off down it’s path before we are aware of it, so how do we stop that. Well that would be where BWRT®️ Comes in to play, see the blog BWRT®️ video 1

 

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Smoking slowly killing you??

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Is the answer yes?

Then how committed are you to quit?

How much do you want to be a non smoker or ex smoker?

Maybe you want to be able to walk upstairs without puffing and panting, or go out for a family walk and be able to keep up.

Maybe you wish to smell nice, your breath smell fresh.

Or do you want more money in your pocket.

Do you wish to be healthy and well, get rid of that persistent cough?

There are many reasons people wish to quit smoking, the list is endless…

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Do it for you

The most important thing is you have to want to do it for you, yes family can be a great motivator, wanting to be able to run around and keep up with the kids, BUT it has to be for you ultimately or you will not stay a non smoker.

This is why I asked the questions above, how much do YOU want it?

If it isn’t an 8,9 or 10 out of 10 then I will send you away until it is. I will not waste my time or your money unless you are truly motivated to do this.

I use the fantastic BWRT®️ therapy for smoking cessation, it has an amazing protocol and works a treat as long as you really want it and I mean really want it!

If you don’t really want to quit, you may be getting pressure from a loved one, then it may work for a while but probably not forever. BWRT®️ is a fabulous therapy and works great but it will not work miracles.

Some reasons to quit smoking

A reminder of what you are putting in your body

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Some will ask why smoking cessation sessions are more expensive, it shows commitment which is what is needed for success.

Smoking cessation is often done in the one session

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Hi this is me, Hypnotherapy Works

Hi all this is my first blog and a little about me.

My name is Helen and I have been a hypnotherapist since 2014, I have thoroughly enjoyed this career path and I am so chuffed I decided to do this. OK so what got me into hypnotherapy, well my partner Gary started with panic attacks when our children were young. The GP recommend he see a hypnotherapist and he did. The hypnotherapist helped Gary with his panic attacks and life continued, until he began suffering with anxiety about 18 months later. He again went to see a hypnotherapist, a different one this time as the original one we couldn’t contact. This hypnotherapist helped Gary again.

By this time the boys were both at school and I was beginning to think of what I could do, I also wanted to contribute to the family in a financial way. Hypnotherapy was something that I began to  explore, I found a course in Newcastle (about and hour and a half drive away) so i signed up. Gary supported me doing this time and I haven’t looked back. I love what I do and hope to continue for a long time.
Over the last 18 months to 2 years I have been doing further training in therapies that either work well with hypnotherapy or along side it.
I have worked with many ailments, problems, disorders, from physical problems like pain and skin disorders to mental health problems from stress and anxiety to panic and depression. I really enjoy the variety of work, I can work with a smoking cessation client in the morning and fertility clients in the afternoon the variety is a part of my job that I do enjoy. I never have two days the same.

Blogs I wish to do in the future:
What is BWRT?
What is WSN?
What is BB4B?
More about hypnotherapy
I am sure I will think of many more.

Thank you for reading, you can find out more on my web page – www.hypnotherapistcumbria.co.uk
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